While Ben had work off we were at the hospital during every daytime feeding, late in to the evenings and then we try to sleep, with our baby not with us and it left us with little energy for the older 3.
When the days starting turning into weeks, with no date to go home, we decided we had to give up a few feedings and spend sometime with the other children.
It proved to be the best decision for our whole family.
We had went to the beach twice, made lots of ice cream runs, we went bowling once and even let the kids have a sleepover in the girls' room.